tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7111790.post109348906872650578..comments2023-07-21T05:03:44.881-04:00Comments on zezrie's Ponderings: Why is the concept of polyamory so distorted?Tabithahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03678020316387681734noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7111790.post-1093566546509338322004-08-26T20:29:00.000-04:002004-08-26T20:29:00.000-04:00I could not agree more...I could not agree more...Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03678020316387681734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7111790.post-1093540930778830492004-08-26T13:22:00.000-04:002004-08-26T13:22:00.000-04:00I think people hear the concept and instantly fall...I think people hear the concept and instantly fall toward the lurid ... the typical guy sees what he wants to see--an easy lay--because the typical guy doesn't have the ability for much beyond that.<br /><br />I think part of the issue, too, is that most people are so hung up on the Juedeo-Christian concept of monogamy, that anything outside that view is seen as illicit. They assume commitment can only occur between two, because that's what they're taught to assume. Anything more, to them, isn't true commitment, but a sign of sluttism (for lack of a better term).<br /><br />As for me ... more than anything, I seek out friendship. What that means and includes for me always depends on the friend ... but the friendship comes first.Clinthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12505935455547470981noreply@blogger.com